How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:02
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Why do Democrats look like snowflakes and Republicans look like Vikings?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
That's it for today.
What are some reasons why men may not want to date a woman who can pay her own bills?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Did you become a cuckold for your wife?
Does not procrastinate.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Do not set goals—set systems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Procrastinates a lot.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Ask yourself:
Why does cocaine makes me want to dress up and get fuck
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What have you learned from your parents' mistakes?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Who are your 5 or so favorite Quora people?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Can you share any "backstage pass" experiences you have had at concerts?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What I need from you?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.